Callback rules for women tend to be a bit confusing for most of us. It’s really hard to know when we should call the man of our lives. Some tell us to call you right away and even initiate most calls, while other tips warn against that. So what exactly should be done? When should you call your boy again to make yourself irresistible to him?
The most important of the callback rules for women is to always wait to call your guy back. You don’t need to wait hours or days, but don’t pick up the phone and call back the moment you realize you’ve missed your call. Men make judgments about us based on how we handle phone calls. They may seem quite disinterested in that aspect of the relationship, but in reality most men are paying close attention. Women can easily seem desperate in the way they handle phone calls. If you are always waiting for him by the phone or if you call him back as soon as he realizes that you have missed your call, he will see you as someone who is emotionally dependent on him. You will also show him that he has caught you and we all know very well that men love the thrill of the chase when it comes to the woman in their lives.
So how long should you wait to call you back after you’ve called or left a voicemail? The answer depends on two factors. If you call him and see his number on his phone, but you didn’t leave a voicemail, don’t call him back. This is one of the callback rules that women often ignore, but shouldn’t. If he didn’t leave a message, you have no reason to call him back, so don’t. If you leave a voicemail, wait at least 30 minutes to call back. Let him believe that you are not so concerned about him and the relationship that he has nothing better to do. If you keep him waiting a bit to hear from you, he will actually find you more attractive.