I’m back, after a few days of vacation with the family. The weather was amazing, the beach was full of disgusting jellyfish, yuck! In general, life has been good. I hope life has been so good for all of you.

Well, I’ll start this article by telling you that I CONFIDENTLY ROARed when I was on vacation. I’ve been to the beach several times and trust me walking on the beach and playing with a girl and racing her in nothing but a tiny swimsuit is a total ROAR for this girl. It seems that we are constantly looking for an easy way out to gain confidence. I hate to share this reality, people, but trust is something we already have and have always had since our pretty butts were spanked at birth. Look no further, I have looked up the dictionary meaning of TRUST for your minds to grasp, here it is:

confidence… 1. full confidence: belief in the powers, honesty, or trustworthiness of a person or thing. 2. Belief in oneself and in one’s own faculties or abilities: self-confidence: confidence in oneself, security that implies faith in oneself.

As you can see there, everything is inside your head. You must believe in yourself. First of all, you must trust yourself and your abilities to survive with greatness and good feelings about who you are, how you look, how you think, how you love, how you deal with unexpected events, but most of all how you carry on. to develop your inner confidence, even when the going gets tough. There are so many external elements that continue to test our inner confidence, it’s no wonder we’re quick to smile at best, when we just want to scream. I’ve talked about some of them throughout my blogs: television, videos, reality shows, climbing the “corporate ladder,” society’s constant attack on aging, overweight people, and please don’t forget the kids.

Children face fears that threaten their confidence all the time. They fear that their parents will look down on them for not having the best grades. They fear their peers will throw them to the sidewalk if they don’t follow. They continually hear how messed up their world has become and how it is teaching them negative things. How can that not weaken your CONFIDENCE? I would kill mine. I am happy that I was strong enough to know the difference between WWF wrestling, cartoons and real life.

ROARING with CONFIDENCE is just as effective as telling the world to BITE ME! I love to say that, as you all know. (winks) TRUST is not easy to keep strong, when we feel threatened inside, or feel that our relationship is being threatened. We immediately feel that we are the ones to blame, which in turn breaks down our confidence.

We need to trust ourselves, trust that we know what we want and what is good for us. Your life is not supposed to be a debate about how you should fit in, or if someone tells you how to look or feel about yourself. you are your life. Your lack of confidence takes you away from who you are meant to be. Trusting and having CONFIDENCE in yourself does not mean that you will always be right about things, but it does give you the strength to overcome your doubts, your low self-esteem and correct your mistakes and improve yourself.

Sometimes I wonder why people do what they do. Is it because they lack confidence and feel that any kind of attention will boost their self-esteem? Or is it that they really don’t care anymore and let themselves be the joke of the moment? I have seen women in internet porn (for research purposes only). Now, this is my opinion, so bear with me here: I am in no way judging anyone, but I do want to reach out to them and tell them that there are better ways. to build trust and feel loved and appreciated. For women who fall into the world of prostitution and feel that it is the only path to stardom; when did you lose respect and self-esteem and when were you afraid to ROAR with CONFIDENCE? Women who have been scorned and literally throw themselves into the bar scene, where they become a piece of meat and are treated worse than a dog, you know that you are not happy there and that those paths to better feelings are not the right paths. . How can one respect oneself if one does not have the strength to ROAR with CONFIDENCE? I cry for all the women who have fallen into the traps of feeling that attention will take them higher. They will never find their freedom to ROAR with CONFIDENCE if they continue to depend on something or someone outside of themselves to get them there.

You need to save yourself. You stay in negative environments where you feel threatened because you need acceptance so much that you have been tricked into believing it will strengthen your CONFIDENCE. You were born with what you need to save yourself! DO NOT wait for help. Help himself. Don’t cry to be rescued, it won’t happen. YOU and only you, have to make that climb. Just trust your feelings and follow them. Trust that only you can give yourself all the strength to ROAR with CONFIDENCE.

I hope that through my website and these written thoughts, some women will wake up and see that they are unique without all the negative attention that they feel is the way. Just be you! You can only be the best you can be by being yourself. Not by following someone else’s standards, but by meeting your own. I love you first and more. Strive to ROAR with CONFIDENCE and DON’T let anyone bring you down.

It is you, and that in itself is a very special gift that no one else has. The more I believe in myself, the easier it is for me to strengthen myself inside and fight against all the negative elements that I encounter day after day. Life is not easy, nor does it come with promises. As I’ve said so many times, “What doesn’t kill you will only make you stronger.” Live those words folks and I mean it when I say it, “ROAR with CONFIDENCE”. It really is a tip to feel good. (ROAR)

I look for myself in everything I do.

I found myself.

I dream my dreams wherever I go.

I become myself.

I ROAR with CONFIDENCE!