TANTRIC MASSAGE

I guess most of us have heard of sex and tantric massages. If someone had asked me what exactly it was, I would have laughed sheepishly and muttered something about soft caresses, feathers, massages, and no orgasm. How wrong I was.

Tantric massage is basically just a massage. However, it was created from the belief that if you are sexually happy and relaxed, your health will benefit. Hindus describe Tantra as the achievement of personal growth through a pleasant existence. The massage itself tends to cause orgasms, but these are described as a bonus rather than the goal.

Although tantric massage does not involve actual penetrative sex, it does involve touching the organs completely. For this reason, you will not find it offered at your local health center. You are much more likely to find it on sale in the many massage parlors in London and other major cities.

If you want to try him or her indoors, here is a pretty basic guide to tantric massage.

First of all, from this point on, your manhood is called a Lingam (light wand, don’t think lightsaber, it’s not that big!) and the lady parts are called Yoni (sacred space or sacred temple ). Let’s face it, those words sound a lot better than the alternatives.

If you are visiting somewhere for your massage, you need to decide beforehand whether or not you will be stripping. The right tantric masseur prefers you to be naked, they believe this helps the healing process throughout your body. If you are shy you can choose to keep some clothes on, I guess you will want to cover your Lingam or Yoni. If you are at home with your wife or husband, unload your equipment and turn on the heating.

Choose soft music (whale music is optional). Now banish all thoughts of kneading your lover until she or he begs for mercy. It’s not that kind of massage. Have your lover lie on her back, legs apart and a cushion under her hips to lift up the Yoni/Lingam area and a cushion under her head so she can look at her genitalia. Explain that although there will be no penetrative sex tonight, it will take you to previously unknown levels of sexual satisfaction. It may help to convince them if she doesn’t print this article and place it next to them on the bed. Choose her lubricant wisely; Chocolate body sauce has no place here.

The massage itself involves every part of the body, although I’m guessing the Yoni/Lingam area will get more than its fair share of attention. Body massage is intended to help prepare the recipient for the attention they will be paying to their genitals.

Yoni massage

Place a small amount of oil on the mound of the Yoni, just enough to drip down the outer lips. Massage each outer lip slowly between thumb and forefinger, gliding up and down the entire length of the lip. Just ask your lover if the pressure is too much or not enough. Try to look him in the eye during the massage and make sure he can see what you are doing. Do the same with the inner lips of the Yoni. Take your time and watch his lover relax.

The jewel in the crown is the clitoris. Four times more sensitive than your Lingam, so take it easy here. Start by gently stroking it clockwise and counter-clockwise and gently squeeze it between your thumb and forefinger. The lady will be well and truly excited by now, but try not to allow yourself an orgasm just yet, let the sensations build. If she turns too much, back her up a bit and encourage her to take a deep breath. Now insert the middle finger of her right hand (I don’t remember why it has to be the right, but I don’t think it will cause too much trouble if she needs to use the left instead of hers) and gently touch the inside of it. . continue massaging gently.

With your palm facing up and your middle finger digging into the Yoni, bend your finger toward your palm and you should feel a spongy area just below your pubic bone. This is known as the G-spot (“that’s where it’s at!” I hear you yell). Gently massage here, in circles, back and forth, side to side. His lover may feel the need to urinate, but hopefully she will feel the pleasure slowly building. At this point, she may want to insert her finger between her middle finger and little finger. While some of her fingers are used inside, she can also use her thumb to continue circling the clit. Another option is to leave your middle finger inside her, continue to stimulate the clitoris with your thumb, and insert your little finger up to her anus. I suggest you maybe test the waters first as anal penetration when you don’t expect it to definitely ruin the mood. While all of this is going on, her left hand may be feeling a bit underutilized. Use it instead of her to continue caressing and massaging other parts of her body (his parts of the body are not yours!). It is very likely that your lover will experience a very intense orgasm and then feel completely relaxed. Usually she will fall asleep and she will leave you in a state of arousal with no prospect of a Lingam massage for you tonight.

Lingam massage

Traditionally the giver, some men can find it difficult to sit back and think about England while their lover goes to work on his light wand. However, I suggest you give it a try considering the fantastic massage you gave Yoni last night.

Have your man lie on the bed with a pillow under his head so he can see what he’s doing. Place a pillow under his hips and spread his legs apart with his knees bent. The Lingam of him must be fully exposed. Begin as before by gently massaging his entire body, avoiding this area for a while. This allows you to be completely relaxed and ready to touch the Lingam. Apply a small amount of oil on your shaft and testicles and start gently massaging your testicles. Next, massage the pubic bone area above the Lingam. Massage the area between your testicles and your anus (perineum). Moving on to the Lingam, gently grasp the base with your right hand and work your way up the shaft and then remove your hand, repeat with your left hand. Do this for a while, then switch to grab the Lingam at the top, slide down the shaft and remove your hand, replace it with your left, and repeat this process. The head of the Lingam is very sensitive and deserves special attention. Massage it in circular motions. Don’t worry if the Lingam softens, it will soon perk up again. Similarly, if your partner seems to be on the verge of orgasm, step back and encourage deep breathing.

Keep pulling him closer to orgasm and then pull back. This is not a method of torture, it helps them control their ejaculation and therefore achieve longer and more pleasurable orgasms. As he continues to massage his Lingam, he can search for his shrine. This is located between his testicles and his anus. It is a small indentation about the size of a pea. If you massage here and gently increase the pressure, he may feel uncomfortable at first. Applying pressure here will help you control his orgasms in the future. If you are about to ejaculate, you can apply pressure here and this will increase the intensity of your orgasm.

The end of the massage is signaled by ejaculation or snoring. If he is diving, you still have to practice a bit. If he has ejaculated, you have to clarify something.

I am still a beginner, however I was pleased to discover that tantric massage is not some mystery sex cult and certainly not difficult to do. Anyone with an hour to spare and a bottle of strawberry-flavored body oil can do it.