I’m not a woman, so I have no concept of the level of anxiety that many women must experience regarding their bodies.

To add to this, the male obsession and infatuation with the way women look often fuels already burning feelings of inadequacy.

The key is that if a woman’s breasts don’t look “full” or “big,” many feel self-conscious.

And while having an hourglass figure isn’t that important anymore (unlike when women used to don whalebone corsets), the idea of ​​”big breasts” certainly is.

This need often pushes many women toward breast augmentation surgery with implants. Implications and health aside, the aesthetics of this procedure have often received varying consensus around the world.

The key to appreciate is that if you have artificially inflated the size of your breasts, they are not going to be as soft, supple and “feminine” as they would be if they were natural.

This may not be news; The point is that if “bigger boobs” are what you’re after, there may be different ways to achieve the same result… like wearing push-up bras, etc.

To this end, there are a number of things to consider about getting breast enhancements that may indicate that you are wasting your time/money. Obviously, most women who undergo the procedure have done extensive research and likely have the support of a long-term partner; if you’re doing it just to attract a mate, it’s probably a bad decision…

1. Body image changes with age

If you are 21 years old, your perception of the “flaws” you have will be completely different than if you are over 41 years old.

Of course, no young woman wants to think about what could happen to her body in more than 20 years, but it is necessary when considering the advantages (or not) of breast augmentation.

I like tattoos: they look great when you’re young; By the time you start to age, they start to fade and become unsightly. While breast implants won’t do that, you need to understand that the elasticity of your breasts will change completely as you age.

In other words, if you’re basing your choice (to get implants) on how you look now, chances are you’re getting them for the wrong reasons.

By all means, if you’re really interested in getting them for your self-esteem, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that…but going through the whole process, the turmoil, and having to keep them just (let’s face it) to get attention. from a young partner, you are likely to have problems later in life.

You have to consider the long-term consequences (not just that they’ll make “that cute bikini” look good on the beach).

2. Health implications

If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve read the obvious health implications of surgery, etc.

However, what most people don’t appreciate are the “peripheral” health implications for back, skin, etc.

Several women have reported large amounts of sagging (which speeds up the larger the implants), and some have even said that their implants fell out of the skin (very painful).

If you have a baby, it’s also questionable whether you’ll be able to breastfeed (some can, some can’t).

The point is, if you’re seriously considering the procedure, be sure to check out all the “other” complications that may arise.

3. They won’t attract a long-term partner.

Sure, women with enhanced breasts certainly turn heads…but they’re not real.

This alludes to the fact that you might attract a partner with the upgrades, but it doesn’t mean they’ll stick around.

As a guy, let me tell you up front that you can tell if a girl has done a job. I don’t care at all, but it denotes a number of indicators of her personality.

Maybe she felt inadequate before, maybe she needed to do it for work (if she aspired to be a model or actress), or (more likely than you think), maybe she’s looking for a millionaire.

Many women are just as bad as men when it comes to judging by their appearance alone. Maybe not as many women, but they are usually much more affected by previous emotional problems (maybe she was in an abusive relationship, had problems with her parents, etc.), which leads many of them to become completely paranoid about their appearance (again, out of a feeling of inadequacy). Usually, these are the women who end up getting “duckface” lip injections and all sorts of other jobs.

The point is that women generally have sex quite easily (easier than men anyway). The true test of whether she is “playing the game” to the best of her ability is whether she can encourage her partner(s) to remain interested in her after she has “given up the goods.”

Pretty creepy, but it does mean that if you enhance your appearance without indulging in your personality, hobbies, passions, and general “worth” beyond what people see, you’re likely to end up worse off.

In short, I can only offer an opinion on something as personal and delicate as this topic.

However, from my experience, while enhanced breasts are definitely a benefit in the “material” realm, when it comes to “true love,” they have very little effect…unless you’re so inclined anyway.