So, you want to talk dirty, right? The most important part is to feel comfortable with it. The more comfortable we are talking dirty with our partner, the more intimate it becomes and with that your inhibitions will drop.

Talking dirty is like a secret with your partner, a secret that only the two of you know and that is something very powerful and intimate in itself. As you learn to talk dirty, a whole new world of possibilities opens up. You and your partner will learn things about each other that previously seemed impossible.

Dirty talk examples are easy to find if you put your mind to it. Here are a few things that will help you get more comfortable with dirty talk and help you bridge the gap between desire and implementation.

Dirty Talk Example One: The tone of your voice contributes greatly to dirty talk. The next time you’re in bed and you and your partner are making love, try saying something simple like “I love when you touch me there” or “I love how you feel against my skin.” These simple sayings can be said in bed as they don’t look dirty and are the first steps to getting comfortable.

Dirty Talk Example Two: If you haven’t talked dirty to your partner, surprising them could be a turnoff. Take small steps to find out where you stand by doing the following. Get a good naughty book and read it while watching TV or right before bed. When he realizes what you’re reading, get up next to him and read a couple of verses. If you like it then read on, if not then you know where you stand on it.