It kills women all over the world to always be the one to tell the guy she misses him. And what is the usual reaction of a boy? He seems to have been untouched by it. Women always ask why they always have to be the ones looking desperate. Can the tables be turned? Here are some “wait-and-see” tactics you can do to make this guy miss you terribly:

Seems too busy to answer your calls or emails

Every time you call, let the call go to voicemail, and then listen while you stutter your greeting. Take care of something else. Don’t reply to his text messages too. Do your best to keep your silence. This won’t be difficult, especially if you know he’ll eventually go berserk and show up right on your doorstep.

Don’t be available each and every time.

Every time he asks you out, tell him you already have plans. The next time he asks you out again, tell him you have a date with your friends. Play your role to perfection, make him wonder why you don’t pee your pants to see it.

When I leave a message on your machine, call back 3 days later

Three days may be the time you need for him to miss you. Make sure he doesn’t hear from you for those three days. This is the most acceptable time for you to make him wonder why you still haven’t called and if you’re okay.

If he always takes you for granted, ignore him for two weeks.

If you’re the one who always asks her if she wants out, or if you’re the only one who makes an effort to make the relationship work, don’t show up for two full weeks. This would catch him off guard and hopefully he’ll be the one to make the effort to be with you once more.

Don’t waste your time waiting for it

You can’t just be depressed, waiting for your phone to ring. You need to keep busy because waiting for it wouldn’t do you much good. You could spend your time with your friends or even exercise.

Resist the urge to contact him.

Try to put a little more hours into your work. Not only will this prevent you from dialing their number, but it will also do wonders for your career.

If you want him to miss you, ignore him when you see him around.

Every time you see him, say in the office or at school, ignore him. For a few days, act like you don’t care if you see it or not. The time you don’t speak to each other must make me miss you.