Introduction

Have you fallen into the trap of neglecting your marriage or your wife? Or are you adding as much value to your marriage as humanly possible? Learn how to have the right attitude to have the best marriage possible.

pillars of marriage

All relationships are built on the pillars of trust, care and love. And since your marriage is the most important relationship you’ll ever have, it should be obvious that these pillars are very important to your marriage as well. However, many people do not realize this important fact, so they neglect their spouse. And eventually the neglect will erase all feelings of love… and lead to divorce.

Relationships thrive with attention

Relationships thrive on attention. So if you really want to bless your marriage and make it the most fulfilling relationship, you have to pay attention to your wife as well as pay attention to her.

Pay attention

If it is true that your marriage is the most important relationship of your life, and it is! — then you have to realize that your wife is the person who deserves most of your attention. More than your boss, your colleagues, your friends, your parents, and yes, even your kids!

You have to treat your wife like she is your queen and give her the benefit of your best care.

That obviously also implies that you have to pay attention when your wife talks to you. Men are often guilty of “switching off” when we get home. We spend the whole day focused on work and when we get home we just want to relax. That also often results in us not listening properly when our wives talk to us.

Did you know? There are few things as disrespectful as paying half attention when someone is speaking to you. But somehow, men tend to think that if they show such disrespect to her wife, she should accept it.

It doesn’t work that way, my friend!

Showing disrespect for your wife is a guaranteed way to kill your marriage.

Add some effort and do it right

just take a little more effort to listen carefully than to listen halfway. But it makes a enormous difference in your marriage. just take a little more effort to give an extra hug, but worth it wonderfully! just take a little more effort to say kind words to his wife, but he brings very much of appreciation – and greatly benefits you, your wife, your relationship and your marriage.

So can you see that just a little extra effort will make a big difference?

Do it now

Karyl Beal once said, “The only guaranteed moment is this.” You have no guarantee that you can do these things for your wife (or your marriage) tomorrow, simply because you have no guarantee that you or your wife will still be here tomorrow.

Don’t wait until it’s too late, because, as Harriet Stowe warned us, “The bitterest tears that are shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone.”

Don’t risk having to regret it for the rest of your life for not fully showing your wife how much you appreciated and loved her.

Do it NOW – TODAY – while you still have the chance! Invest in your marriage, because both you and your wife deserve a long and happy marriage. Your wife deserves to be treated like the queen that she is. Do it, make the investment! You will not regret!

Never stop becoming a better husband