Most men don’t know anything about what women really want in oral sex. They think their reading of the latest and greatest 21 year old virgin male owned and edited website will give them some good information. It’s not going to happen, this woman gives you the real secrets.

Preparing for the engagement

While I know guys hate foreplay and just want to get on with it to get into the action, you have to. It’s not even for the romantic aspect of it all, it’s a physical necessity. Her lady needs to be properly prepared for her body parts. You jump right into something and you can be sure that you will end up with a frustrated lover. It only adds about 5 minutes of gameplay to get him in a good mood. It helps if she’s wearing underwear that you bought her and you just took it off.

The explicit act

You want to start off gently and lick the labia majora with a few well-placed strokes. Then make a quick transition to massaging the nerve endings of the clitoris with your tongue. Do not touch the clitoris with your hands, it completely kills the soft sensations of the mouth. If you ever hear women talk about why they love a woman’s touch it’s because of the savagery of a man’s hands when she makes love. Keep your hands out of the equation.

Work your tongue back and forth, left to right, over the clitoris, in an almost smooth motion. You have to do this for about 15-20 minutes to get her into a state where she can experience multiple pulsating orgasms. Don’t give up early, most average lovers do, and if you want to part with them, then you can’t.

The advice that only a woman can give you

One trick that will drive your lady completely crazy during this entire process is if you insert a finger into the vaginal canal while this is going on. Not putting your finger on the clitoris is the rule, but this is not there, and it works wonderfully. Don’t even move your finger, just leave it there, the pressure it induces will be enough to send shock waves through her when you climax.